

Step 1: Meet John Chaffee
My name is John Chaffee (MDiv, ThM). After twenty years of pastoring in churches, camps, and prisons, my calling widened into writing, teaching, and spiritual direction — helping the tired pastor, the one who left church, and the one still quietly questioning in the pew.
Formed by Merton, Nouwen, Barth, and the Desert Mothers and Fathers, I write, teach, and lead retreats on the Christian mystics and contemplative wisdom, with one hope: to walk with you through the dark night, not around it.
Step 2: Join My Free Newsletter
Somewhat counterintuitively, I choose not to participate in social media. I believe in the slow work of transformation and allowing the best of the Christian tradition to have its way with us. That said, email is the best way to stay in touch!
If you would like to have 5 quotes from church history and reflections on them sent to you each Friday, join the free newsletter and you might also get some other goodies as well.
“The spiritual life does not remove us from the world but leads us deeper into it.” – Henri Nouwen
Step 3: Listen to a Podcast or Get the Most Recent Book
Upcoming Online Classes in Fall/Winter 2026
“For me to be a saint means to be myself. Therefore the problem of sanctity and salvation is in fact the problem of finding out who I am and of discovering my true self.” – Thomas Merton

Step 4: You can also join my Patreon community to get exclusive project updates and actively take part in the creative process with me…
“The day of my spiritual awakening was the day I saw and knew I saw – all things in God and God in all things.” – Mechthilde of Magdeburg
Contact John for Spiritual Direction, Coaching, Retreats, and More
“There is no other light to guide you except that which burns in your heart.” – St. John of the Cross
Testimonials
“I am so grateful for John Chaffee. He is a gifted writer, thinker, guide, and spiritual coach. Each week, I look forward to his weekly email, and I am thrilled he has written this new book to help people live by a wisdom that many consider foolish.” – Brian D. McLaren, author of Do I Stay Christian and Faith After Doubt
“I always think of [John] as a modern desert father.” – Rev. Leah Q.
“Spending time talking with John is more like spiritual therapy than anything else. I often joke that you were more of a therapist/counselor to me than my first 2 therapists.” – Josh S.
“It was so good to have you (for a retreat) and the people who came have had so much to talk about. You are sharing and working through topics that are incredibly important, and you’re doing it in a way that draws people in.” – Rev. Kaitlyn W.
“Taking your class was a blessing in itself and to be put with a professor who knew what he was talking about and loved talking about it was amazing. You opened my mind up to so many new ideas and objectives that I want to reach in life. I would say that you are one of the most influential teachers/professors that I have ever had.” – A Former Student
“Every Friday, [the 5 on Friday Newsletter] challenges me to think a little differently. After a couple of months, I see things in a whole new way.” – Anonymous
“The spiritual wisdom of a sage, the empathetic non-judgment of a therapist, the sensitivity to God’s voice of a prophet, the shame-free love of a parent, and the attentive listening of a close friend. John Chaffee is a healing balm for a hurting soul. If you want a safe space and a trustworthy guide to help you navigate your faith journey, do yourself the favor and talk with John. The love, freedom, empowerment, and hope you will experience is priceless!” – Joshua S.
“When I feel I am losing my way, [John] inevitably say[s] something that reawakens and refreshes my spirit.” – Tom
“I have just started to pursue spiritual direction with John. I found him to be easy to talk with and a good listener. He paces the session well and makes helpful observations and comments based on his vast knowledge of reading various Christian authors over the centuries. I plan to continue working with John and look forward to our next appointment.” – Don Z.
“I participated in John’s Fully Alive in the spring of 2025. This class gave me an opportunity to explore my spirituality in an atmosphere where there were not right / wrong answers. The study text was easy to follow, and provided a good framework for deeper thinking.
Overall, I came away from the class with a deeper understanding of my own spirituality, and how I intend to live in this absurd and beautiful World.” – Todd B.
Being part of the Fully Alive group was an amazing experience. John is a gifted spiritual teacher and he led us through conversations that totally expanded my understanding of what a faith based on a “living spirituality” could mean for me going forward. After every session, I took away learnings that I would often weave into conversations with family and friends. John inspired me to see that all of us in the “second half” of our faith journey should aspire to being “wise elders” in the spiritual development of our younger generations seeking their own North Stars during these challenging times.” – Karen H.
“I absolutely enjoyed being a part of the Fully Alive 2025 summer cohort! This course is brilliantly designed to foster deep theological reflection and discussion, with a focus on practical life application. With each session, I learned new perspectives that have helped me grow in my spiritual journey. The Fully Alive course is filled with themes of growth, encouragement, discernment, and love; all grounded in ancient and modern wisdom. My experiences working with John through this course are something I will always cherish!” – Austen S.
“All will be well, all will be well, in every manner of thing, all will be well.“ – Julian of Norwich









